Tell me this isn't my daughters new reality

I saw this link on the MSN home page today. I wanted to hurl, cry, cringe and storm into plastic surgery centers all over the country screaming about self esteem and developing self perspective. Not to exclude the deluded writers and publishing companies that would print this lethal load of trash, and who market it to our warped and misdirected counterparts. Who apparently believe the best way to help their children deal with their surgical self-mutilation is to convince them they are better and more lovable after surgery. Do I even have to start on the dramatic implications of this "children's" book.

I believe there was a time when people who chose this path to spiritual disability attempted to keep it a secret from most people or at least their children. Now apparently our society is so self absorbed, misdirected, and destructive that we no longer feel it necessary to protect our children or others from our poor choices, not even for simple shames sake.
I do have to say that as a mother I can certainly understand the temptation to at the very least put our bodies back to their pre-pregnancy state. However, I have to ask the question, would we even have this desire if we hadn't been brought up in a world that misappropriated the importance of perfect figures and warps our view of beauty it's self. Causing us to chase after perfection which by it's very nature is unattainable in this life, therefore solidifying our guarantee for unhappiness.
As women of the world I can see how there wouldn't be much to prevent them from wanting to 'correct' their body in this way. But can't even they comprehend the irreparable damage done to young children especially girls who are brought up to believe they aren't good enough by themselves, they must be corrected. Brought up to believe that God hasn't given you enough and is not a good enough designer of the human figure in order for us to find beauty in all life. We must pinch, tuck, deform, and mutilate what he has given us to fit a narrow and ridged stereotype which the world insists we conform to or else we are worthless. Is this truly the world and perspective we want to bring our children up in and with? It truly saddens and sickens me. I couldn't help but rant.